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How to Get Over a Guy You Still Like

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Journal
• Hobbies

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   Stay around close friends. Being alone can make it even harder to get over a guy you still like than it has to be. You'll end up with a lot of time to just sit and think--and guess what you'll be thinking about? Instead, occupy your mind by focusing on your friends.

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   Sit down and read a book. Choose a book you've been dying to read lately, but just haven't had the time. Get comfortable. Lose your thoughts in the book, and you'll find that you are spending less time thinking about him already.

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   Keep a level head. Sometimes it's hard to get over a guy who believes it's OK to still flirt with you from time to time. When something like this happens, don't flirt back. Even if part of you automatically responds to his overtures, turn it off! Remind yourself that, if it was meant to be, you would still be together. Know that there's something bigger and better out there for you.

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   Cut him out of your life if you know it's the only way you'll get over him. Delete him from your cell phone, email system and any other system of communication. It can be hard to stop yourself from text messaging, because it's sometimes easier to "type" words than to "say" them. But forbid yourself from doing it.

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   Start an exercise regimen. It's not uncommon for girls to automatically belittle themselves when they're trying to get over a guy. If you begin an exercise regimen, it will boost your mood immensely and make you feel better about yourself in the meantime. This is a good time to try out a new fitness club, learn to pole dance or maybe take a karate class. Try something challenging to consume your mind and push away the thoughts of him.

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   Begin writing a journal. When you put your thoughts on paper, you'll be amazed at how much more relaxed you become. Thoughts trapped in your head without an outlet go around and around in a destructive cycle. Pick out a cute new journal and start writing. Every time you pick it up, read the previous entry first. You'll be amazed at how much this helps you realize how perfect you weren't together.

Tips & Warnings

• Music can help increase your mood immensely, so go buy that CD you've been wanting all week. Crank it up and sing along!
• It's OK to cry. Sometimes crying can be one of the quickest ways to get over bad feelings. We just need to get them out, and that's what crying is for. So sit down and have a good cry and notice how much better you feel already.
• Be open to finding someone new. It's not always good to begin a relationship right after a breakup, but it is helpful to keep your eye on some guys for a while. You never know what could happen.
• Don't lie about it. When someone gives you her condolences, don't say you're over it unless you really are. Just smile and try to not say anything at all (if you can do so politely). Most people will get the hint and keep his name out of conversations.

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How to Know if a Guy doesnt like you back?

Steps :

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   Watch body language. Body language says a lot about a person, if he rarely ever looks at you, or isn't smiling (and has a vacant expression) while looking at you, odds are, he isn't into you. If he's interested, usually he will be looking at you a lot, and he will be willing to start small talk. Watch his feet while talking to him. If they are pointing towards your direction he's interested
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   Pay attention to if he's ignoring you. If he ignores you during the day, and he shows hardly any interest, and looks at you once, then it's quite obvious he doesn't really find you interesting.
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   If he's talking to other girls, and not to you, it's just quite obvious that he's probably interested in one of them. It also may be a possibility he's trying to make you jealous, if your not sure, look at him, and if he's talking to the girls and glancing at you, that could be one of the signs he likes you and is trying to make you jealous.
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   When he's looking at you, look at his eyes; if his pupils get larger, then he likes you. This has been proven that if a human really likes something, their pupils will enlarge.
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   Drop something, anything, a book, a pencil, possibly right in front of him, if he is willing to help you, there is a good chance he likes you, especially if he starts conversation with you right after. Guys usually always help out girls they like. Don't confuse liking with kindness.
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   If a guy is acting rude to you, making fun of you, or talking meanly and laughing about you with his friends, it's not a good thing. Odds are if he's treating you like this, you're onlyreally liking him because of how attractive he may be. So at the point, it would definitely be the time to move on.
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   If you find out he doesn't like you, don't be mean. Be polite and Move on.

Tips:

• Sometimes, if he doesn't like you, it definitely can be a hard thing, especially if he's on your mind a lot. But don't lose hope! Just because HE doesn't like you, doesn't mean another wonderful guy won't. If you've ever heard the saying, "There are other fish in the sea.", it's true!
• Be aware! Sometimes a woman's instinct is correct right from the start! He could actually like you! If he likes you be aware of the signs.
• Dealing with rejection is hard, but, remember, crushes will come and fade with time. The most important thing is that you have friends and family that will stick by you. Talking with trustful friends and family and you will get through it.
• Accepting and coming to terms with what is going on and what has happened is one of the hardest things to do, but you will move on. And you will accept it and come to terms with it.
• Initiate a friendship with him. Starting a friendship is easy, and usually starts out with just a sentence. Start on topics such as the weather, school, work, anything really. This actually is the best way to getting what you want, because you figure out more about him, and who he is. You could actually discover you don't like him as much as you thought you did. If friendship is just making you like him more, than move a little bit forward. Be a bit flirty with your friendship. But beware, he could be just interested in the friendship you share.
• In the end, if you can't tell you can just ask him if he does or doesn't like you. Honesty is the best policy.
• When your confused if a guy likes you back he probably doesn't but if you know he likes you then he likes you.
• Even though every guy behaves a different way no matter what personality or flaws he holds they all make an effort to get to you. If he likes you he will text, call, talk to etc. He might be shy, cocky, insecure but if he's truly interested he'll get to you. If you find yourself doing all the work there's something wrong there.

• If he is telling others that he wishes to kill himself or never see you again because he knows that you like him then i think its pretty obvious that he doesnt like you

Warning:

• He's always hands off if he is dating someone. Remember, how would you like it if some girl was trying to get your man?
• Remember your limits, and his.
• He could have a possible interest in you if he has a girlfriend and he secretly is keeping his crush on you to himself by telling his girlfriend things such as "She's Weird" or "Ew, she's ugly" but this always could be true, so watch for close tall tail signs that he's interested or not, and get more information by watching his actions towards you.
• The information in this article is heavily stereotyped. All guys are different, just as all girls are different. As such, these are just tips that may or may not be true.
• Boys are like buses if you miss the first one the next one will be arriving soon.
• Don't be too all over him odds are you'll look needy or desperate and that is a turn off.
• We chase the people who ignore us and ignore the people who adore us. Live by that motto a lot of guys will be coming your way.
• Don't play hard to get or hang around other guys in front of his company not only is it obvious what your doing but you might get an unwanted label.