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How to Get Over a Guy You Still Like

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Journal
• Hobbies

1. 1

   Stay around close friends. Being alone can make it even harder to get over a guy you still like than it has to be. You'll end up with a lot of time to just sit and think--and guess what you'll be thinking about? Instead, occupy your mind by focusing on your friends.

2. 2

   Sit down and read a book. Choose a book you've been dying to read lately, but just haven't had the time. Get comfortable. Lose your thoughts in the book, and you'll find that you are spending less time thinking about him already.

3. 3

   Keep a level head. Sometimes it's hard to get over a guy who believes it's OK to still flirt with you from time to time. When something like this happens, don't flirt back. Even if part of you automatically responds to his overtures, turn it off! Remind yourself that, if it was meant to be, you would still be together. Know that there's something bigger and better out there for you.

4. 4

   Cut him out of your life if you know it's the only way you'll get over him. Delete him from your cell phone, email system and any other system of communication. It can be hard to stop yourself from text messaging, because it's sometimes easier to "type" words than to "say" them. But forbid yourself from doing it.

5. 5

   Start an exercise regimen. It's not uncommon for girls to automatically belittle themselves when they're trying to get over a guy. If you begin an exercise regimen, it will boost your mood immensely and make you feel better about yourself in the meantime. This is a good time to try out a new fitness club, learn to pole dance or maybe take a karate class. Try something challenging to consume your mind and push away the thoughts of him.

6. 6

   Begin writing a journal. When you put your thoughts on paper, you'll be amazed at how much more relaxed you become. Thoughts trapped in your head without an outlet go around and around in a destructive cycle. Pick out a cute new journal and start writing. Every time you pick it up, read the previous entry first. You'll be amazed at how much this helps you realize how perfect you weren't together.

Tips & Warnings

• Music can help increase your mood immensely, so go buy that CD you've been wanting all week. Crank it up and sing along!
• It's OK to cry. Sometimes crying can be one of the quickest ways to get over bad feelings. We just need to get them out, and that's what crying is for. So sit down and have a good cry and notice how much better you feel already.
• Be open to finding someone new. It's not always good to begin a relationship right after a breakup, but it is helpful to keep your eye on some guys for a while. You never know what could happen.
• Don't lie about it. When someone gives you her condolences, don't say you're over it unless you really are. Just smile and try to not say anything at all (if you can do so politely). Most people will get the hint and keep his name out of conversations.

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How to Know if a Guy doesnt like you back?

Steps :

1. 1
   Watch body language. Body language says a lot about a person, if he rarely ever looks at you, or isn't smiling (and has a vacant expression) while looking at you, odds are, he isn't into you. If he's interested, usually he will be looking at you a lot, and he will be willing to start small talk. Watch his feet while talking to him. If they are pointing towards your direction he's interested
2. 2
   Pay attention to if he's ignoring you. If he ignores you during the day, and he shows hardly any interest, and looks at you once, then it's quite obvious he doesn't really find you interesting.
3. 3
   If he's talking to other girls, and not to you, it's just quite obvious that he's probably interested in one of them. It also may be a possibility he's trying to make you jealous, if your not sure, look at him, and if he's talking to the girls and glancing at you, that could be one of the signs he likes you and is trying to make you jealous.
4. 4
   When he's looking at you, look at his eyes; if his pupils get larger, then he likes you. This has been proven that if a human really likes something, their pupils will enlarge.
5. 5
   Drop something, anything, a book, a pencil, possibly right in front of him, if he is willing to help you, there is a good chance he likes you, especially if he starts conversation with you right after. Guys usually always help out girls they like. Don't confuse liking with kindness.
6. 6
   If a guy is acting rude to you, making fun of you, or talking meanly and laughing about you with his friends, it's not a good thing. Odds are if he's treating you like this, you're onlyreally liking him because of how attractive he may be. So at the point, it would definitely be the time to move on.
7. 7
   If you find out he doesn't like you, don't be mean. Be polite and Move on.

Tips:

• Sometimes, if he doesn't like you, it definitely can be a hard thing, especially if he's on your mind a lot. But don't lose hope! Just because HE doesn't like you, doesn't mean another wonderful guy won't. If you've ever heard the saying, "There are other fish in the sea.", it's true!
• Be aware! Sometimes a woman's instinct is correct right from the start! He could actually like you! If he likes you be aware of the signs.
• Dealing with rejection is hard, but, remember, crushes will come and fade with time. The most important thing is that you have friends and family that will stick by you. Talking with trustful friends and family and you will get through it.
• Accepting and coming to terms with what is going on and what has happened is one of the hardest things to do, but you will move on. And you will accept it and come to terms with it.
• Initiate a friendship with him. Starting a friendship is easy, and usually starts out with just a sentence. Start on topics such as the weather, school, work, anything really. This actually is the best way to getting what you want, because you figure out more about him, and who he is. You could actually discover you don't like him as much as you thought you did. If friendship is just making you like him more, than move a little bit forward. Be a bit flirty with your friendship. But beware, he could be just interested in the friendship you share.
• In the end, if you can't tell you can just ask him if he does or doesn't like you. Honesty is the best policy.
• When your confused if a guy likes you back he probably doesn't but if you know he likes you then he likes you.
• Even though every guy behaves a different way no matter what personality or flaws he holds they all make an effort to get to you. If he likes you he will text, call, talk to etc. He might be shy, cocky, insecure but if he's truly interested he'll get to you. If you find yourself doing all the work there's something wrong there.

• If he is telling others that he wishes to kill himself or never see you again because he knows that you like him then i think its pretty obvious that he doesnt like you

Warning:

• He's always hands off if he is dating someone. Remember, how would you like it if some girl was trying to get your man?
• Remember your limits, and his.
• He could have a possible interest in you if he has a girlfriend and he secretly is keeping his crush on you to himself by telling his girlfriend things such as "She's Weird" or "Ew, she's ugly" but this always could be true, so watch for close tall tail signs that he's interested or not, and get more information by watching his actions towards you.
• The information in this article is heavily stereotyped. All guys are different, just as all girls are different. As such, these are just tips that may or may not be true.
• Boys are like buses if you miss the first one the next one will be arriving soon.
• Don't be too all over him odds are you'll look needy or desperate and that is a turn off.
• We chase the people who ignore us and ignore the people who adore us. Live by that motto a lot of guys will be coming your way.
• Don't play hard to get or hang around other guys in front of his company not only is it obvious what your doing but you might get an unwanted label.

Hanya Ingin Kau Tahu.

Ku telah miliki
Rasa indahnya perihku
Rasa hancurnya harapku
Kau lepas cintaku

Rasakan abadi
Sekalipun kau mengerti
Sekalipun kau pahami
Ku pikir ku salah mengertimu

Aku hanya ingin kau tahu
Besarnya cintaku
Tingginya khayalku bersamamu

Tuk lalui waktu yang tersisa kini
Di setiap hariku
Di sisa akhir nafas hidupku

Ow wooo wo wo wooo

Walaupun semua hanya ada dalam mimpiku
Hanya ada dalam anganku
Melewati hidup

Rasakan abadi
Sekalipun kau mengerti
Sekalipun kau pahami
Ku pikir ku salah mengertimu

Aku hanya ingin kau tahu
Besarnya cintaku
Tingginya khayalku bersamamu

Tuk lalui waktu yang tersisa kini
Di setiap hariku
Di sisa akhir nafas hidupku

Aku hanya ingin kau tahu
Besarnya cintaku
Tingginya khayalku bersamamu

Tuk lalui waktu yang tersisa kini
Di setiap hariku
Di sisa akhir nafas hidupku

Ow wooo wo wo wooo

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Shontelle - Impossible.

I remember years ago
Someone told me I should take
Caution when it comes to love
I did, I did

And you were strong and I was not
My illusion, my mistake
I was careless, I forgot
I did

And now when all is done
There is nothing to say
You have gone and so effortlessly
You have won
You can go ahead tell them

Tell them all I know now
Shout it from the roof tops
Write it on the sky line
All we had is gone now

Tell them I was happy
And my heart is broken
All my scars are open
Tell them what I hoped would be
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible

Falling out of love is hard
Falling for betrayal is worst
Broken trust and broken hearts
I know, I know

Thinking all you need is there
Building faith on love and words
Empty promises will wear
I know, I know

And now when all is gone
There is nothing to say
And if you're done with embarrassing me
On your own you can go ahead tell them

Tell them all I know now
Shout it from the roof tops
Write it on the sky line
All we had is gone now

Tell them I was happy
And my heart is broken
All my scars are open
Tell them what I hoped would be
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible!
Ooh impossible (yeah yeah)

I remember years ago
Someone told me I should take
Caution when it comes to love
I did

Tell them all I know now
Shout it from the roof tops
Write it on the sky line
All we had is gone now

Tell them I was happy
And my heart is broken
All my scars are open
Tell them what I hoped would be
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible

I remember years ago
Someone told me I should take
Caution when it comes to love
I did..

Lirik Kebahagiaan Dalam Perpisahan – Shahir AF8

Tak perlu ucapkan sepatah kata

Kerna lantang terbaca dari muka

Kau dan daku sudah tiada
Keserasian di jiwa
Mungkin magisnya sudah hilang

Tak perlulah kita mencuba lagi
Betulkan kesilapan perhubungan ini
Bila setiap perbincangan
Menjadi perbalahan
Manakah agaknya cinta kasih

Chorus
Embun pun takkan mampu menyubur sekuntum
Bunga yang layu pada musim luruh
Yang dulunya mekar di sinar suria
Bila sudah kering pasti akan gugur

Seperti cinta kita yang jelas ternyata
Semakin lama oh semakin rekah
Menimbulkan tanya apa mungkin kita
Temu kebahagiaan dalam perpisahan

Usah titis air mata kau tangiskan
Ku dah cukup menampung selautan
Begitu lama ku pendam
Tapi hanya berdiam
Kerna cuba menafi realiti

Ulang Chorus

Seperti cinta kita yang jelas ternyata
Semakin lama oh semakin rekah
Menimbulkan tanya apa mungkin kita
Temu kebahagiaan dalam perpisahan

Kebahagiaan dalam perpisahan

Big Fan Of One Republic

Secrets

I need another story
Something to get off my chest
My life gets kinda boring
Need something that I can confess
Til' all my sleeves are stained red
From all the truth that I've said
Come by it honestly I swear
Thought you saw wink, no
I've been on the brink, so

Tell me what you want to hear
Something that were like those years
Sick of all the insincere
So I'm gonna give all my secrets away
This time, don't need another perfect line
Don't care if critics never jump in line
I'm gonna give all my secrets away

My god, amazing how we got this far
It's like we're chasing all those stars
Who's driving shiny big black cars
And everyday I see the news
All the problems that we could solve
And when a situation rises
Just write it into an album
Singing straight, too cold
I don't really like my flow, no, so

Tell me what you want to hear
Something that were like those years
Sick of all the insincere
So I'm gonna give all my secrets away
This time, don't need another perfect line
Don't care if critics never jump in line
I'm gonna give all my secrets away

Oh, got no reason, got not shame
Got no family I can blame
Just don't let me disappear
I'mma tell you everything

So tell me what you want to hear
Something that were like those years
Sick of all the insincere
So I'm gonna give all my secrets away
This time, don't need another perfect line
Don't care if critics never jump in line
I'm gonna give all my secrets away

So tell me what you want to hear
Something that were like those years
Sick of all the insincere
So I'm gonna give all my secrets away
This time, don't need another perfect line
Don't care if critics never jump in line
I'm gonna give all my secrets away
All my secrets away, All my secrets away

Hope they have tour to Malaysia one day!

friends?best friends?

(continues from facebook)

Person that we should trust is our family.Especially parents (even sometimes we hurt cause of their actions, words..because they love us)

I still believe that my parents love me.

They would be with us whether we r in very good situation or bad.

I dont like people (friend) who using a friend because only of her/his advantage..when friend need some help,they just give excuses. Is ok if just only little bit help.How about a friend really need a help??Is like,help..for convince judger to let her/his get back to university. Even she/he did so bad things that anyone cant accept it? Is it hv such nice person can help that friend??The words for convince to judger are not affected anything to them..But,no one give support.Where friends that everyday with her/him do good things together.we r happy,laughing together..celebrate birthday,celebrate congratulation,joined club/society together..do homework and study together.etc..Where r they when need a such urgent help??Are they best friend?Just a friend who seldom meet,seldom hv a good day together come to help this black sheep friend..

Then,this black sheep friend become quite cruel to people except her own family.

Where is her principal are: Dont trust anyone too much,except her own family. (parents first)

Second one: If people do good things to you, give a good feedback to them. And vice versa. Thats means, life should give and take. Can't just waiting people give everything to you is like your a master!. and can't just give everything to people that people can using u as a slave! Give and take principle will bring a world so balance and harmony!

In a new case, a friend who ever being a very best friend just using her like a slave!. This black sheep friend didnt use her own principal. Everyday seems a good day, she follow what master say. Human have her/his own limit of being patient. She want to run away from her master,when she realize that she become so stress of duty hard work. Addition,when she need a master to help her, the master will say 'No!'.(almost).is like 'Do by yourself.'..

And this black sheep friend trying so hard to break the rules!Even it will hurt the master!..Lastly, she success do it!Horray! But she still wonder is master learning from the lesson that slave give to her/him?

Then, they break up into two pieces.where is dont want to be a best friend again.and not be trusted.

The master say, "my trusted best friend decrease become two..before is more than two."

The black sheep friend say,"What best friend used for?become your slave?and u still dont want change yourself, u will be alone.no body want to be your friend or slave!Because everyone is a leader, atleast lead themselves.no slave.no master.in a friendship."

And this black sheep friend also learning from what happened and improve self.

Thanks God what You give! Everything You give to us is a wonderful lesson. Make us thinking to get a better life.

Thank you to friends who becomes a wonderful friend, not only best~!

List of friends..

International friends : U help me too much. sometimes i become so shy to ask for help.and Even my present,respect,a bit help not good enough to everything that u hv done.You make me become more hardworking to achieve goal (study)!Thank you.I love u guys!

Housemate : I love u guys. Your so kind. masak la ikan masin tu,puding n blalalala..makan je,x kisah=D and anything help.just ask me if i can help. (if transport help,cant ma...dont hv transport..) and duit rumah + etc2. around rm250.i will go to asb tomorrow.huhu.coz MARA didnt give money yet.I waiting MARA until today..waaa..so cruel!!top up back to asb when MARA give loan for this month.

I never had a good housemates and roommates since i came to MMU. Always have something that not good between roommates at hostel.

Noi : we share too much story.and we respect each other.and we do assignment together.and we dating a while together..i just a listener. Dont know how to help. If can help. I will help. Just in assignment.haha..but dont know answer perfect or not..!huhu..I love u!

Layang, Qiss and Anis. :

I love u guys..we also share so many story together.and hope we can trust each other.and improve self and improve relationship between us..

My first friend I knew after my own roommates is Anis.Then i become a friend to Layang and Qiss.

But..I become sad what happen between me and her. (in a slave.master story).

Unitenian friends : Is it i hv friends or a friend over there?

worst.

maybe i just remember Alia. Fenas. and Din only.

Schoolmate (primary +secondary) : I really miss u guysssss!!!!!when we can meet?so long time, more than 5 years..so sad..i really miss..primary:amira and siti nur adirah(lost contact)..secondary: aizat,kiah(zakiah anis)..org lain panggel anis,aku panggel kiah..haha..ain,eija,ekin,shekin,atiah..etc2...

p/s:My english not so good^-^